endless struggle for a place under the sun and the desire to get as much as possible, which would conform to the ideals of modern society, has become a vicious circle, where the man has practically ceased to be the master of his life, becoming a captive of stereotypes imposed by someone from the outside.The main values - family, love, friends - took a back seat.
I specifically came from afar that would thus emphasize the importance of the seemingly simple things such as attention to the close people, in this case the attention of spouses to each other.
Man and woman getting married - take responsibility for each other, they build joint plans for the future and are not always aware that the concept of responsibility as part of the obligation to pay nearly one another consideration.If you give your precious time to your loved one, you thereby show our love, and this should always be time.I am also a working woman, and just like most of the "independent" persons all day I turn like a squirrel in a
today we can no longer repeat and live it as something different.The fact that we are in the same room, does not mean that we spend time together, we are only in one territory, under the same roof - but still apart, because our focus is not on each other, and on something completelythe other, divide us.I think that it is because of such here everyday "seems to be together" and lost a psychological bond between the couple, which is why they sometimes fail to realize when they started obvious problems in the relationship - when between them formed a wall of incomprehension and mutual claims.Just the wall, slowly but surely thicken as they like to be together.
From this paragraph on the responsibility, I want to say that such behavior - irresponsibility.If you want, what would your marriage was strong, you have to have a time when you spend it only with his close friend, talk, share emotions and experiences of the day we live, their thoughts, dreams - everything - the time that youspend together.
I decided to come up with such a tradition.Every day (at least we try to do it every day), my husband and I go on walks in our neighborhood.On the way we communicate, we breathe fresh air.There is no TV, no computer is constantly flashes at the bottom of the screen, our attention is fully focused on each other.My husband took this proposal with enthusiasm.Now, an hour before bedtime, we walk.
should be noted that this communication with a spouse can be quite romantic.Feeling as if you recently got acquainted and walk together hand in hand, learning about each other a lot, and the feeling near and dear person next.With these walks, we have become closer and more openly with each other.Besides - this is a great way to escape from the worries and relax.
course, you can come up with an alternative to the pedestrian walks, but in my opinion - is the easiest way to ensure that spending time with each other, when it does not require huge material and time costs.If you value your relationship, find time for them - at least an hour a day.Joint trips to the cinema, theater and other entertainment events - not quite to.A, maybe it will not be walking tour and cycling trip, let it be not even every day.That lesson where your attention will be occupied only with each other.I am confident that in this way you will strengthen your relationship and maybe even discover something new in your seemingly so already "tasted" is understandable, native people.