No, the last question does not apply to the scholastic, but rather, psychological, so from where you prioritize, will depend on the happiness and well-being in your home.
Every girl wants to get married.Even the most inveterate careerists suffer the New Year from the fact that the glass on the table, only one.And when utensils doubles, the question priority career does not protest ladies.But why?After all, once the dream of a double bed, nightly sessions with the two parties, unless forced to cry into his pillow, then a sad sigh and grieve.
Why now, when the ring on her finger flaunts without beginning or end, many women do not want to do "women's homework?"The answer is obvious - it is difficult, troublesome, infinite, and does not bring tangible results.After all, when a bank card, "fell" how much something rubles, it is noticeable and can be considered a personal achievement.But you bring satisfaction yesterday jelly, which was eaten within half an hour, and at the same time "took" from the lif
It is this desire for real self-affirmation makes lovely ladies climbing the corporate ladder, confident brand heels stepping on the steps called "family."Particularly wrong with this story the fate of "abandoned" his mother, and, alas, be sure nedolyublennosti children.
They filled complexes like the vessel during a rainstorm."Taxed" in the form of toys and permissiveness does not bring pleasure.After all, you probably have, too tired to death cakes, if you eat them every day!Similarly, the children - they are happy to give all the toys of the world just for the fact that my mother would once again patted on the back and told me how to make friends with a girl.
If you are faced with the question: "Career and Family", consider that you are already on the bottom step of a bitter old age and joyless life.You know, in the Soviet era was a "mother-Union", the famous TV diva Valentine Leontiev.
it every night "bedtime" All rebyatnyu countries wishing her good night from the TV screen.She just began broadcasting "Good night, kids."Meanwhile, her first small and then grown-up son, dreamed of her as a fairy Fee.As a result, the boy grew up, my mother grew old.
Children's offense did not allow, not only to take care of him for the infirm old lady, but even hold her last journey.Cruel?Maybe.Only the children's tears shed because of their parents, be sure to drop by the inevitable aging.Do you want to double this story?Then think - career or family ...
But there is another extreme.Woman "Kvocka."Eraser-pet machine that sooner or later "break", covered with wrinkles and stop all interested - and her husband and children.
reason for the woman's "loyalty" family simple.From childhood, girls are taught that it is - "Keeper," "continuer kind."She often hears talk of a "good, rich marriage", that the main thing for a woman - the family.
And if a young lady grow with such conviction (remember Prutkov said: "Man is like a sausage - than his" stuffed ", and it is in itself"), then the future of women necessarily grow "hen."
And what, in this case to be surprised that a child from a mother always under control and, therefore, suppress and childish.My husband did not even see it as a woman (who did not bother dressing gown and curlers)?
Girls are gradually moving away from "home miracle", it's just boring - it's all in the dishes, burgers and child trios.And there is such a "wife-dream" in the end, household items with a gray little soul, and limited consciousness.
So where is the way out?And it is likely that in the first morning of family life need to tell the young husband, that is, soup vegetables are cleaned for 10 minutes.
But if you do it together, then each will have only 5!And yet, to convince the future Pope, that daily pies, which he loves so much, the supermarket is not worse than from our own oven.And what in the world are not just for beer sports bars, but hen parties.And the children in the garden, it turns out, also give dads ...
the only way to teach her husband will not get breakfast as the zoo - brought, and gave, and develop the habit of cooking his coffee in the morning for the whole family when you are doing toShe also omelet.
so easy!Where children and women share household chores in half with her husband, she is released exactly half her time on housework.This is the time, and you can safely give business.
And when wealth will allow, indulge help housemaids.And know that you'll be more interesting to look, the less reason to give her husband to look around.
In addition, you do not give birth to the fatherless, and the baby, who should be Mom and Dad.And so, do not forget that children, like all people on earth, not only alive "by bread alone" - my mother's attention and love they needed much more than the fancy computer.
only way, without dividing and without singling out any career or family, you will be able to his last breath to assert with confidence: "I am - a real woman, a wife and mother!»
persuade or convince the lady in such things meaningless.Career or family priority puts only the mistress of his fate.But remember - iron business woman, put on the altar of career own family - Medusa, as well as the "slave house".
And if you have a lot of children or you by nature a born housewife?Perhaps in this case, you should find an option of working at home.This option, which allows you to grow and stay interesting to his mate.Why not try yourself as a copywriter?Who is a copywriter - read!
Domostroi times over.You are free and available.Burqa have to face.But the family can not serve as an obstacle to happiness.Simple female happiness, which, thank God, there are two wings - a career and a family.Chop off one of them, you will never take off ...