of mine, now a former colleague, loved to repeat the folk wisdom: "It is better to regret what he had done than about what did not."
However, in her case, this position is not played in her gates.Olga specialist high-end, but at the same time is quite short-tempered man, and sometimes too impulsive.Once we have witnessed the scandal between Olga and the secretary of our leader.
stood in the corridor with a great shout, that the whole office came running to look at the two girls find out the relationship.
soon and our boss out of the office.Olga impulse to prove his innocence and should be noted, in fact she was right.
But suddenly, she made a serious mistake.Having decided not to make a neat manipulative step, she cried out: "Valery, or I, or the idiot!".I will not work with this whore in a team!
on our boss, calmly said, "dismiss".The drone has stopped, all fell silent.Olga, continuing: "Oh, so !?" grabbed a piece of paper and dashed off a statement on their own.Head signed a statement as soon a
When we asked the boss why he did not stop Olga, she was right, and it is a high quality specialist.He replied: "I do not like when I start to threaten».
course, Olga did not want to quit, and then very sorry for what was done the deed. Because of an impulsive outburst she had lost a good paying job she loved and who have invested a lot of effort.
On this, the conclusion of this story is: the dismissal should be well thought out and the decision should not be taken at the time of momentary impulses.
And now, I will list other situations in which you should not retire.
1. «Itired of all the crap out! »
Similar depressing mood visit each head, without exception, but that does not mean that we should resort to such a drastic step and resign.
probably the best way out - leave, where youWe need a good "break" and get away.
I'm sure after the holidays, you will have plenty of brilliant ideas and fresh thinking about work and how to achieve success in the new career field.
2. «My husband earns a lot, to me now there is no need roach»
Firstly, my husband the situation is likely to change.Today he is on horseback, tomorrow may be relieved from his horse, alas, and this often happens.If both husband and wife - the family a more stable economic situation.
independence and success are all women, without exception.Being "comfortable" izhdivenkoy - a position which automatically deprives you the opportunity to have their opinion, the time and opportunity to make decisions.As they say, who pays for everything, the piper calls the tune.
Secondly, any relationship can fall apart - in this case, you will have in a short time to look for a job to support themselves.
As they say, hope for the best but be prepared for any landscape in the situation.
3. «It's difficult in this group, they are some quarrelsome»
ability to communicate with people - an important skill that is needed in any team.Even if a team has clearly opposed to you people learn to constructively address these situations.
Especially for you never will be established "friendly" staff, the only option open his own company, where you will choose the very "suitable" employees.
not smart to leave the good jobs, just because of the fact that you can not overcome their shortcomings.
Yes, da start in any conflict situations it is necessary to themselves.By the way on this topic (the topic of conflicts in the team) is an excellent article, read about how to get out of difficult situations in your team.I'm sure you will cope with this task.
4. «I just have a terrible boss - a tyrant»
Unfortunately, the authorities, as well as the parents do not choose (smiles).
And if it is only that he, in your opinion, not a professional, you stupid or something else out there, and the rest of the work you're happy, then I advise you to learn to look at his head only as a leader and not to mix here superfluous emotionsand feelings.Follow the chain of command and perform their "mission".
5. «I want to devote time to his family»
thing Life is short and if you divide it into time steps, then I devote time to her husband, then work, then to children with it, I'm afraid you one life is not enough.
Learn to combine business with pleasure, otherwise you may miss out on many opportunities remain unrealized, and only because of the fact that once you have illusions about the proper distribution of time.
6. «Today, I was offered a good place, I probably agree»
Again and again, I will say - no hasty steps.
Before you go where you promise better working conditions, make sure that there are no hidden pitfalls to which "recruiters" silent in the pursuit of new personnel.
Find out all about the new place and just having all the necessary information to make decisions.
7. «I decided to look for a better place, I immediately got tired of -No!»
Then I'll be brief.First find - then go.
In my story there was one case when she left her job that she was tired, she could not find a permanent place for 8 years.And it was a great tragedy for her.
on this, go to nowhere - a losing option "at random".
course, all cases are individual.But we must clearly understand what gives you the organization in which you are working, and how much priority requests satisfy your job.
Only when the best (the most) important aspect, because of which is to work on a particular site is not - it makes sense to look for a new location.And if you do decide to retire - do it right!
Important to understand and separate the important from the unimportant.
Sometimes life experiences our strength.For example happened in history, who told one of the participants of the club.The situation is tense in the team, the heroine of history was ready to retire from work, but ... it is not only resigned, but has become a leader!Read her story of a successful career.